Saturday, April 28, 2012

The First Month and a Half

I was washing dishes this morning at the cabin, and I started daydreaming.

I daydreamed about my first month and a half of marriage.  Matt and I lived at the cabin because the people we bought our farm from still lived on the farm.  Therefore, we needed another place to live until we could move into our own house.

Sadly, though, I actually don't remember that much. 

I remember being in college.  My cousin, Brittany, and I would drive together three days a week.  She'd be at my house around 6:30 a.m., and we'd head to G.F., and hour and a half away.  It was fun driving together.  We had a lot of visiting time.   I'd have barely rolled out of bed, gotten dressed, and gathered my things before she showed up.  Matt would usually wake up and make my breakfast for me, then help shove me out the door. 

From there, I'd be at school all day, and Matt would be working on my huge pasture over by Lake Bronson.  He was busy fencing while I read books.  He was also working on tearing up the fences at our farm.  On the days I didn't have school, we'd come up here to the farm together and work on pulling things up.  However, I don't remember helping tons with that, either.  I think I was busy with school - or a huge procrastinator (yes, I am one!) to plan my time very well for that. 

I also remember washing dishes together.  We'd usually do it together, since the cabin has no dishwasher.  That is something that's fun to remember.  Once we were there, we didn't have something pressing outside that had to be done; we could just spend time together cleaning up and visiting. 

We also watched a lot of movies.  The cabin didn't have anything but a tv and vcr/dvd hookup, so we spent many hours watching movies. 

I don't even remember how I got homework done - maybe used a memory stick since I didn't have email access at the cabin?  I'm thinking so.  Then, I'd try and use my time wisely between classes at college to finish papers, etc.  However, that whole procrastination thing still interrupted and distracted me from many things I could have worked ahead on.

I remember that Matt's dad would come a lot on the weekends so that he could help fence and fix up the farm.  That was really nice, to have all his help.  I think it was fun for him to get over and help with the cows again, since it had been a few years since they'd had cows at his house. 

And, of course, I remember all the happy bliss that comes with just getting married.  But that's all I'll share about that. 


It's fun to remember back.  We were so busy, just moving through each day, getting the work done that had to be done.  I don't really miss it, though.  I miss not being in college - I loved all my classes - but I don't miss how the fencing/building corrals/etc. that comes with getting your own new farm and how little we actually ended up seeing each other because we were running in seven directions at once. 

Now we enjoy going to the cabin with my family often.  It's a fun place to hang out and relax.  We can't wait to go again next weekend!

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Friday, April 27, 2012

Cabin Night

We're heading to the cabin tonight.  It's not that far, really, only about seven or eight miles south of our house. 

Still, it's like vacation. 

We haven't stayed at the cabin since deer hunting last November. I feel like we've been missing out.  The cabin feels so quiet and remote because once we're there, we really don't want to leave. 

Clarence has been asking for over a month now if we can go and stay at the cabin.  Finally, we just decided that we need to do it, otherwise we won't get there.  So, we're headed there tonight.  I really can't wait.  I'm not really sure how well my kids will sleep - they usually go to bed late and wake up early - but that's ok.  We're "vacationing" for the night. 

I've been baking all day - muffins, bread, buns, caramel rolls and cinnamon rolls with coffee/maple icing.  I'm taking the rolls to the cabin for all of us to have for breakfast (my whole family will be there).  It's so fun to sit around, visit, drink coffee and enjoy a yummy breakfast together!

Off I go to pack for the kids and make sure I remember all the food I'm planning to bring. 

Sleep tight!

Have a fun weekend!

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

The C & A Daily

This morning we were playing outside....blowing bubbles, chasing balls, chasing cats, cleaning the flower bed, and.......?

The kids got tired of blowing bubbles, so they ran off.  I was working in my flower bed pulling the weeds that have popped up before the actual plants...grrr!  Once I was close to finishing, I noticed Clarence and Adina were yelling "ha, ha, ha...".  I thought nothing of it.  They're fine...just being themselves.  Once I'd finished, I wandered over by the chicken barn.  They were on the outside of the horse fence, the side they're not supposed to be on, because there's a bunch of trees, then a really steep drop off, then the river. 

Me: Kids, you need to get away from there.

C & A: (no response)

Me: Kids, come out from there. What are you doing anyway? 

C:  I feeding the horses.  (he's feeding them chick starter...I'm not real sure if it's safe for horses, but they're still alive....let's hope it stays that way.)

Me: Honey, you can't feed that to the horses.  They'll get sick.

C: (puts down the sour cream container he was feeding them from and starts chasing the chickens again) Ha, Ha, Ha!

Me: Clarence, don't chase the chickens, that's mean.  And don't go over on that side of the fence, or I'll give you a spanking.

C: (oblivious to the fact that I said anything)  Ha, Ha, Ha!

Me: Clarence!  Leave the chickens alone.  You aren't supposed to go over by the fence!  Enough!

C: Mom, I sorting those.  (duh, Mom!  He's talking about the chickens.  Do you sort chickens?)

Me: (I started laughing....and tried to get them to find another activity away from the river....we looked for eggs and went to feed the heifers)

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Adina's in love with our little baby kitties...we have four.  Did you know gray cats  can have four black baby kitties?  We're still a little confused by it, but whatever, I guess. We were hoping for a little more color. 

Anyway, Adina loves them.  I think she'll be a cat farmer when she grows up.  I can see it now - Adina's Cat Ranch...

No, not really.  She's more into makeup than cats, but when she's outside, the kitties sure hold her attention. 

I was wandering around the yard gathering eggs and picking up garbage (I hate the after-winter garbage that seems to land all over the yard!).  I came back up to the deck and here's Adina, one tiny, newborn kitten in her hand, trying quickly to get away from me in case I try to take it away. 

I try to explain gently that she can't play with the kitties yet.  She doesn't really understand.  Then, I look over on one of the deck chairs, and she's put the other three in a little pile on the chair. 

The mother cat, Rocks, seems oblivious.  She's just laying in the box beside Regan, our other fully-grown cat who's now decided she'd like to be foster-mom to the babies.  (The box is like a large computer-paper box - hardly big enough for two grown cats and four newborns.)  I tell Adina we need to put the babies back with their mommy. 

Then, to divert her attention, we run in the house quick and blow her nose.  She blows it and heads straight back out to pet the kitties. 

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We've been staying close to home lately, enjoying the beautiful weather, feeding cows, etc.

Yesterday, the kids and I fed cows while Matt worked fields to get them ready for seeding. I was trying to be nice - sometimes thats' more work than it's worth!  We were going through the gate with a load of bales, and cows sneak past my gate man (Clarence), who's not quick enough to stop them...then, some other cows by the fence saw that a few had escaped, so like 7 more  jumped the fence. 

I was angry.  Really angry.  At the cows. 

We finished feeding, then tried for about an hour to get the cows in by ourselves with the 4-wheeler.  That didn't work.  Meanwhile, the whole time we were doing this, a cow was calving.  I kept watching her, expecting any moment for the baby to pop out...but I was worried, too.  The momma kept laying on her side, rocking back and forth and kicking, then got up and walked around, then layed down and did it all over again.  I thought she was having trouble.

So, I walked up to her thinking I was brave enough and good enough to chase her up to the calving pen. 

She looked at me, then came towards me a little.

I walked quickly to the fence and left her alone. 

I'm a chicken.  I know it. 

I called Matt and told him that I thought a cow was having trouble calving.  We went down to pick him up at the field and brought him home.  As we drove up to the gate out back, Matt and I both noticed the cow was up and licking her calf.  Good one, Jacki!  I felt foolish.

Matt didn't think I was foolish, though - he said he'd rather have me be safe than sorry. 

Anyway, that's how much fun it is feeding cows by myself with the kids - I enjoy it a lot, but I hate when cows sneak past me/Clarence, or decide they can jump the fence. 

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Have a super day!  Please pray it'll rain a little here soon to get the pastures growing...it's time to start hauling cows out, but the grass is coming very slowly.

Friday, April 20, 2012

Clarence's Calves

Clarence is now the proud owner of 2 calves.

One is named Dolly.  I probably talked about her last fall.  She was born late last summer and her momma died, so she was our bottle calf for a while.  Well, yesterday we shipped the rest of our calves, and Dolly wasn't one of them.  There's no way Clarence was letting her get on the semi.  So, Matt told Clarence he could keep Dolly for all the hard work he's helped with over the winter. 

When we were loading the heifers on the semi, Clarence spotted an orange/red heifer.  He decided she had to stay home, too. 

Well, Matt, being the softie that he is, decided Clarence could have that one, too.  So, Clarence has 2 heifers.  With names.  Dolly and Regan....(he's so original...we have a cat named Regan already....named after our neighbor Regan Twamley).

I don't even want to mention the fit he had when he saw the 2 red steers come into the pen and get ready to get on the semi.  He cried and cried and cried.  I felt really bad, but there's no way we can keep steers on the farm just for the heck of it.  We'd never be able to even butcher them because if he found out about it, it wouldn't be good!  Anyway, he cried for about an hour about the whole ordeal....once we were on the road, he calmed down.  He had two dollars in his pocket that he wanted to bring with to Bagley to try and buy them back.  (It wasn't quite enough, though.)

Yesterday we went to Bagley to watch the calves sell.  Clarence loved every minute of it (Well, we all did, but he didn't want to leave.  I think if he could've gotten a job, he would've stayed and helped out.)  Anyway, we drove home through Roseau and stopped at Fleet so Clarence could pick out his own eartags for his calves.  Guess what color?  Orange.  Yep.  He's all set to raise cows now. 

He's been playing with his tags now since he woke up from his nap.  Dolly doesn't have any eartags, so he needs to get her some eartags with numbers.  He told me that her number is going to be A84H.  (Just the random numbers/letters that popped into his head, I guess).  I'm guessing we'll just end up putting tags that say "Dolly" in her ears with 2011 written somewhere so we know she was born in 2011. 

Anyway, now you know.....Kittson County has another rancher!

Adina

Here's a little info about our crazy little princess, since her big brother's the one who is usually talked about.

#10:  Adina loves lipgloss....and makeup.  Anytime I'm in the bathroom and she catches me in there, we have to put on mascara, lipgloss, deoderant and perfume.  She's quite a girl!



#9:  She loves cats!  Every time she sees our cats, Rocks and Regan, she just squeals....Today she's been chasing Regan around the yard trying to catch her so she can hold her.

#8:  She loves Clarence no matter what.  I know they're going to be great friends.  They're both at an age right now where they love to play together (most of the time) and be silly together.  Their big thing right now is climbing into Clarence's bed and hiding under the covers....hiding from me.  :)  Clarence calls under his covers his "cabin".  He loves hiding in his cabin.  So does Adina.

#7: Anytime one of us is getting ready to head outside, Adina's right there, too.  She likes to be in on all the action.  She'll find any of her shoes closest to her and put them on.  She gets really nervous and starts looking for her hat and coat, too.  She'll gather it all and bring it to me so I can send her out with whoever's ready. 

#6:  She likes to help me in the kitchen.  If I'm cooking or baking, she'll grab a chair/stool and slide it as close to me as possible, then stand on it and try to help with everything. I love it - it's fun to have company!

#5: Her favorite outside activities include: playing in the sandbox, swinging, going down the slide, feeding cows, riding 4-wheeler, and checking on the animals with someone (Me, Clarence or Matt).

#4: Adina's starting to get picky about what clothes she puts on for the day.  If I pick out an outfit and she doesn't like it, she'll either throw a little fit or go and find something else she'd rather wear.  Uh-oh! 

#3:  She's a very affectionate little girl.  She loves to give kisses and hugs to Dad, Mom, Clarence, Grandma's and Grandpa's, Baby Harley, and Aunties and Uncles.  She's always willing....(unless she's a tired, cranky, ready-for-bed little girl).

#2:  Adina's developed a love for talking on the phone.  She'll babble something, nod her head a lot, listen, then babble some more.  At the end, she'll say "wuv uh" and "bye". 

#1: She loves chocolate and candy and gum and her pacifier.  All of them.  She'd mostly prefer to eat a piece of candy, then her passy, then some chocolate, then her passy, then some gum, then her passy.  I know it's time to get rid of it - I hate the stupid little thing - but I also can't live without it!  I feel like she'll be a mess for a couple days, and I'm not sure I'm ready for that! 



Hope you're  enjoying the wonderful spring weather! 

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

A Three-Year Old's Prayer

Clarence prayed his own prayer at bedtime tonight...here's how I remember it.

C: Dear Yord, calves, cows...

Me: Say 'thank you for calves'.....

C: Thank You for calves. Thank you for cows. Thank you for bulls. Thank you for horses. Thank you for shickens. Thank you for bulls.

Me: What about family?

C: Family. Thank you for family. Grandma Yuli? 

Me: Yes, and everyone else. 

C: No, everyone no my family.

Me: Ok, just family, then.

C: Amen.

C:  (gets under covers).....Dear Yord, Amen.

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Meanwhile, Adina jumped around here and there, then bowed her head, folded her hands, and made noises like she was praying.  Then, she looked up at me, clapped her hands, and said "Amah".    Good girl, Dia!  and good job praying tonight, Clarence!

Clarence's Daily

Clarence.....


He's really been on a roll lately.


Poor Regan (his black cat).


Poor  Ruby (our dog).


He's so enthused about what he's doing, I hardly have the heart to stop him.  However, yesterday when we got home from his day at the Finney's, he ran straight to a little shed out in the yard and opened the door.  I was carrying groceries in and not really paying attention.  However, when I went back outside, Ruby was jumping, wiggling, everywhere - just so happy and excited to see me.  I wondered, 'was she around when I just drove in the yard?'  I went over to the shed....Clarence was standing there with the door open and Adina was watching.  I went inside and he had his cat in a covered box in the shed.  He said she was sick, and this was his place to keep her.

The poor cat.

Poor Ruby!

I got after him and told him he couldn't keep animals locked up all day - it was  mean and cruel.  Plus, what if he forgot about them?  I asked him....he told me they were sick and they needed to be in the pen.  He's so persistant these days!

Right now, he was out with Matt, then came up to the house.  He tried to catch the cat, then grabbed his rope and roped Ruby (who didn't even try to get away).  He brought her over to the red shed.  Guess what I've gotta go do now?  Get after the crazy kid....  I want him to love his animals, but to take care of them the right way.  He thinks what he's doing is just playing with them - he doesn't understand if he forgot about them that they could die....(although, now that I know about it, I'll be keeping a watch out for the cat and dog).  

Ruby's such a good dog with Clarence....he grabbed her again out of the shed and is leading him around the yard.  She's so content to just follow him around.  What a good dog we have!  I'm so happy she likes him and doesn't mind all the pestering (I'm sure if she didn't like it she'd either try and get away from him or nip at him, but I truly don't think she'd ever bite him.) 

Well, off I go, to try and explain (once again) that Clarence needs to be nice to his animals, and that putting them in a shed (whether they're sick or just imaginary sick) isn't being nice. 

Wish me luck!

P.S.  I promise that I won't let him ever hurt the animals....in case you're worried and think I'd let him do anything....I won't!

Ramblings

It's been a quick morning here.....it always seems to go by quickly when we're in and out of the house, playing outside, and feeding the cows, calves and heifers.  The kids just go with the flow....it's so nice that they're flexible.  Even today, we didn't get in the house until 1:30 and the kids weren't overly crabby (to my relief!).  I fed them quick and sent them up to bed....

The only problem is that Clarence isn't sleeping yet (it's about 2:30)....He fell asleep for five minutes in the tractor, so now he's probably just too wide awake.  I hate when that happens!  It means he'll be tired and ready for bed by about 7:30 - I know, not so horrible, but it just seems to screw up the day somehow. 

Anyway, I'm really enjoying this spring and staying home with Matt and the kids.  Our babysitter just had her baby and I don't really have someone to bring my kids to (or at least I've been using it as my excuse so that I can be home and help out here).....That's ok...I got plenty of subbing in over the winter - now I can help feed cows, be outside and get some exercise, and work on cleaning out my back entry so that it's ready when Mark is done with college.  (It needs to be ready because we're tearing it off and adding on an addition out back.)  I can hardly wait.  I just picture how I want everything to look, then change my mind and picture it another way....I can't wait to decorate it!  (I don't want to get too far ahead of myself, though, because then I'll just get impatient with the slow "building" process.  I guess that'll just motivate me to help whenever and wherever I can.)

I've been thinking about my garden.

I'd like to start planting it, but the days have been kinda chilly.  I wonder if it'd be a good idea or not.  I think it would be safe to plant my potatoes....and maybe onions?  And the kids and I planted cucumber and pumpkin seeds last week (which, miraculously, are still in the dirt, in the pots we put them in - don't ask me how we've managed it this far!).  I can't wait for fresh veggies from my garden and to can and freeze everything so I'll be all stocked up again!

I've been thinking about my addition (which I already told you about...I won't bore you again....but it's always on my mind!).

I've been thinking about the summer.

We've got some planned things happening, but I feel like most of the summer will be relaxed and enjoyed here at home (I hope!).
  • So I wonder about what the kids and I are going to do to keep busy....what are some fun activities I can do with them?
  • We've got a little pool - they'll play in that almost every day, I'm sure.
  • and the sandbox
  • and the animals
  • and the stroller to go for walks
  • work in the garden
  • the bikes to go for bike rides
  • plus the usual check cows and  check on daddy routine
  • go visiting
  • ride horse
  • etc.
  • however, I feel like all that will bore me after the first few week.....any other suggestions?
Do you have any suggestions for fun things we could do outside/inside that don't cost a fortune and would entertain the kids?


Anyway, this is a really random post - sorry!


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Today, Clarence and I were in the barn talking, and Adina had left.  I said, "Where did Adina go?"  Clarence said, "I don't know". We looked outside the barn and she was looking through the gate at the cows mooing at them.  She didn't notice us at first.  It was adorable watching her.

Then we went out back for a 4-wheeler ride and to watch Matt show us his expert roping skills.  There's a calf out back that's not being claimed, so I think we'll be having another bottle baby to feed.  It was out with the big herd, so Matt wanted me to drive him out there and help shoo it towards him so he could rope it.  He got it, after four or five attempts. 

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Also, for those of you who read my facebook post about Matt and that he likes drinking buttermilk and that it makes him more athletic, he added oysters and blue cheese dressing to his statement.  Just take his advice, everyone, and you'll definitely be more athletic.  :) 

(I'm not making fun - he's just really random sometimes)


Well, anyway, have a super day and sorry for the jumping around!

Sunday, April 15, 2012

List of Supper Ideas

I sub quite a bit over the winter, and it seems that I always get kinda bored.  I bring books and magazines with to read, but I'm usually through with those (or bored by them) before lunch....

So, I make lists.

I make lists of things I should do in my house now, things I want to do in the future, ideas for fixing things up, what needs to be done on the farm, what I want to plant in my garden, what I should can from my garden, baby names (for future reference, of course), and supper ideas to have on hand for those days when I'm feeling uninspired and can't think of a darn thing to make.

Here you go (in no order whatsoever):

Use as you like, or discard as you like.  I like this because it's all things I like to make, but can never think of at the last minute.

hamburgers/hotdogs/brats/polish
pizza burgers
bbq's
funeral sausage
fried potatoes
potato wedges
hamburger gravy over potatoes
swiss steak
tacos
chicken enchiladas
roasts, pork or beef or both
ham and scalloped potatoes
quesadillas
pancakes
waffles
eggs
pizza
spaghetti
hotdish: tator tot, cabbage, hamburger-noodle, pizza-noodle, etc.
taco pie
spaghetti pie
chicken pot pie
chicken thighs with noodles
creamy chicken and veggies
sandiwches: with lunchmeat, chicken salad, egg salad, pb & j
wraps
grilled chicken salad/sandwich
steak
pork chops
fried egg sandwich
pasta - with marinara sauce or creamy sauce
mac and cheese
bbq chicken
cheesy hashbrowns
fried rice
pineapple chicken with rice
stroganoff
stir-fry
shepherd's pie

Soups:
chicken noodle
chicken dumpling
beef and barley stew
ham, bean and dumpling
chili
taco soup
wild rice with bacon/chicken
chicken with rice and veggies
chicken tortilla - creamy or brothy


Well, there's my list - in no way complete - it's just nice to have something like this handy to get ideas.



And, if you're a breakfast person, here's a list of fun breakfast ideas:

toast
eggs
pancakes
waffles
bacon
sausage
egg bake
caramel rolls /maple/cinnamon/orange
muffins
tea ring
coffee cake
oatmeal
granola
french toast
smoothies
waffles with peanut butter and honey

maple nut butter (for spreading on waffles or pancakes)
  • butter wipped with syrup and pecans
berry butter
  • butter whipped with berries, then wrapped in a log and refrigerated/frozen until ready for use

Anyway...there you go.  Hope this helps you think of something fun to make for supper/lunch/breakfast!

Friday, April 13, 2012

Ahh!

The days are just flying by.

It seems like last week, but it was really last month, that my cousin Shannon asked if Ruthie and Guilford could come and spend the night this weekend while she was away at a conference.  I said absolutely.  And they've been here all day. 

In fact, they're upstairs sleeping right now.

We've had a fun/long/busy/exhausting day.

#1: We woke up....it seems like I'm always tired....even when I get enough sleep.....I guess the days are so filled and busy that I don't really catch up.  Oh well.

#2: We had to run out and check cows (the four kids and me)....No new babies today.....kind of a relief since we had 11 or 12 yesterday.    Matt was out spreading fertilizer on the hay fields right after he ate breakfast because of the rain that was headed our way....
         This (checking cows) resulted in something we wouldn't discover until three hours later......

#3: Matt finished, came home, and we all headed into town to run some errands.  It all turned out fine...the kids were pretty good.  Ruthie has proven may times today that she is a LIFESAVER! What a great kid! She's so awesome and always willing to help...whether it's me or to occupy the kids.  I love her!

#4: Our trip to town resulted in Clarence crying because I let him pick out only one can of pop at the store - he wanted "lots of root beer", which I wouldn't give in to.

#5: We drove into the yard to find about 75 cows running around the yard, most of them eating beet pulp.

(This was the result of checking cows this morning...Clarence is the "main gate man", but his double-checking hasn't quite kicked in yet, and he missed latching the gate correctly....which resulted in the mess of cows running everywhere.)
#6: I almost died because of this.

#7:  Mostly because of all the running and yelling I did trying to chase them in.  This was the most exhausting part of my day. 

It's not something I'd like to repeat every day.  It took about 45 minutes to chase the cows back in.  Which brings me back to Ruthie.  Have I mentioned yet that I love her?  She brought the kids into the house (where it's safe) and played with them until I came in to feed the kids - about an hour later.  I don't know how I would've ever managed to help Matt chase all the cows back in and worry about the safety of my children.  Obviously, I wouldn't have been much help to Matt had Ruthie not been here.

#8:  Ate dinner.  All three little kids napped.  So did Matt.  I thought about it.  Then finished washing dishes. 

#9: We baked cookies.  Delicious peanut butter/oatmeal/choc. chip cookies. They're my favorite!  I shouldn't really say "we". Ruthie pretty much did it herself; I washed dishes some more, then gave the little kids snacks and such....

#10: We made homemade pizzas for supper.....one of my favorite meals!

#11: I got my "Pioneer Woman Cooks" Cookbook (#2) in the mail today.  I'm loving it.

#12: All three kids got baths; Clarence was quite naughty off and on throughout the afternoon.  Which resulted in no pop after supper while the other kids got to drink theirs.  He wasn't happy.  Neither was I.  We'll both live, though. 

#13: It's only 10-ish and I'm so ready for bed.


Goodnight, all.

Sleep tight.

We've got another wild day again tomorrow.  My cousin Savannah's bridal shower in the morning and a benefit for the baby daughter of my kids' babysitter in the evening.  I'm so happy Ruthie's here to go with me, especially since I'll be trying to help with the shower, and I'll definitely be more help with her there than if she wasn't going to be there.  She's so helpful, and I'm so thankful!

Sleep tight!